Maybe a “How to be a Man” course before a kid gets his license could help. The ones who are doing this damage have been conditioned with an adolescence of tolerance for their behavior that to them, they’re in the right. The male mindset is a malleable thing, but it has to happen early. They have to not only be told what is acceptable and not acceptable, but they also have to be shown. We fail them by allowing them to rely on hormonal response, or, worse, what they see and hear online, as to how they should act.